Friday, February 12, 2016

Translated post about top five regrets of dying people

My good check-up really brought into reality something we all take for granted - good health and a long life.  Our ride here on the merry-go-round of life is limited.  Eventually we all have to get off.  So, the question is that will we be ready when that time comes or will we be filled with regrets?   


This re-post is from a French Nurse who interviewed her dying patients about their regrets in life.  Interesting read.  


Reposted from Teak Door




Here are the top five regrets of the dying, as witnessed by Ware:

1. I wish I'd had the courage to live a life true to myself, not the life others expected of me.

"This was the most common regret of all. When people realise that their life is almost over and look back clearly on it, it is easy to see how many dreams have gone unfulfilled. Most people had not honoured even a half of their dreams and had to die knowing that it was due to choices they had made, or not made. Health brings a freedom very few realise, until they no longer have it."

2. I wish I hadn't worked so hard.

"This came from every male patient that I nursed. They missed their children's youth and their partner's companionship. Women also spoke of this regret, but as most were from an older generation, many of the female patients had not been breadwinners. All of the men I nursed deeply regretted spending so much of their lives on the treadmill of a work existence."


3. I wish I'd had the courage to express my feelings.

"Many people suppressed their feelings in order to keep peace with others. As a result, they settled for a mediocre existence and never became who they were truly capable of becoming. Many developed illnesses relating to the bitterness and resentment they carried as a result."

4. I wish I had stayed in touch with my friends.

"Often they would not truly realise the full benefits of old friends until their dying weeks and it was not always possible to track them down. Many had become so caught up in their own lives that they had let golden friendships slip by over the years. There were many deep regrets about not giving friendships the time and effort that they deserved. Everyone misses their friends when they are dying."

5. I wish that I had let myself be happier.

"This is a surprisingly common one. Many did not realise until the end that happiness is a choice. They had stayed stuck in old patterns and habits. The so-called 'comfort' of familiarity overflowed into their emotions, as well as their physical lives. Fear of change had them pretending to others, and to their selves, that they were content, when deep within, they longed to laugh properly and have silliness in their life again."

Moral of the story. Enjoy your life everyday and when you leave, take Sinatra's words to heed: Regrets, I've had a few, but then again, but too few to mention.     And please don't read anymore into this post than just info.  I have no morbid intentions...555,  just want to live life to the fullest, just like my blog title says.  I know for me, I look forward to everyday and can't wait to get home to enjoy it more...my way...just 3 more days.

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